Thursday, November 18, 2010

闻雷泣墓

三国时魏国的王裒,小小年纪便懂得敬重、孝顺父母。他的 父亲王仪因正直敢言,被骄横跋扈的晋王司马昭无辜杀害。

小王裒在母亲的抚育下渐渐长大,他将全部的爱心和孝心放到了母亲身上。除了亲自照料母亲的饮食起 居,他还常陪她说话,逗她开心,以解除老人精神上的孤独和凄苦。

母亲病了,他日夜侍候在床前,衣不解带地喂汤喂药,母亲生性害怕打雷,每当下雨打雷的时 候,他便将门窗关得严严实实的,拉着她的手,绝不离开半步。
     
 

多少年以后,王裒的母亲久病不治,溘然长逝。他悲痛万分,将父母合葬一处,虔诚恭谨地守丧尽孝,每天早晚,都到墓前祭奠。

他惦记着母亲怕雷的事情,每当刮风下雨的天气,一听到轰隆隆的雷声,便狂奔到父母的墓地,跪拜着哭诉说: 儿子王裒在此,母亲您千万别怕 !”  

王裒对父母的感情可谓至深至厚,每当读到《诗经.蓼莪》这 篇中 哀哀父母,生我劬劳 两句时,他都会反复颂读,禁不住泪如雨下,悲不能自已。

看了这个故事,让人心里久久不能平伏。不是因为故事情节有多么引人入胜, 多么惊心动魄,仅仅是因为主人公对父母的一片热爱与孝敬。每个人对父母孝顺的体现在形式、行为上都不一样,关键是能不能细心观察,急父母之所需,想父母之所想。
    
 
王裒知道母亲最怕打雷 , 所以每每打雷都会寸步不离母亲,且对母亲生前如此,死后亦然。设想,如果父亲喜欢下棋,那么我们便可以泡两杯清茶,和父亲对弈几盘;若母亲喜爱热闹,那么假日时邀上几位好友到家来,和母亲一起下厨做几道好菜, 一来可以和朋友聚 , 二来我们也和母亲有了沟通的机会,排遣母亲的寂寞。
    
 
古人云: 子欲养而亲不在 。趁着双亲俱在,多多关怀他们,才是我们最需要做的。

Wang Pou was a man of Yingling (today's southeast Changle, Shandong) in the period of Kingdoms Wei and Jin.

He was knowledgeable and capable, his father Wang Yi was killed by Sima Zhao and he secluded himself and made a living by teaching.

He never sat towards the west in his life and vowed never to submit himself to the rule of Kingdom Jin. His mother feared thunder when she was alive and was buried in a mountain forest when she was dead.

Whenever Wang Pou heard thunder, he went to his mother's tomb, knelt down and comforted her by saying: "Pou is here and Mother needn’t fear."

When he taught, he was often all in tears and thought of his parents whenever he read the article Liaoe.

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